Keys to Manifesting Change Within Duality: Balance and Focus

4/1/13  The Energy Mechanics of Manifesting Change Within Duality

“Help! Whenever I decide to shift my perception of reality from one that I don’t like to one that I do, the old one always comes back!” With those frustrated words, my client flung herself into an armchair. Our first session had begun. Yet, although she was new to me as a client, her words weren’t. I’ve heard the same lament so often that I know it must be a very common one.

So,  I decided to address it here– just in case those words ring a bell to you. Perhaps you’ve heard them come out of your own mouth, or rail at you inside your head? If so, remember the optical illusion analogy I used about maintaining balance in my last post, “A Little (Big) Tip About Changing Your Reality?” When you look at the picture one way, you see a witch. Switch your focus, and the witch becomes a beautiful lady. The picture doesn’t change. Your focus does. The witch is always there in the lady, and vice versa.

Well, that’s duality. It’s a given, it’s the context we operate in as human beings. No matter how much we  expand  into our full potential, we will not outgrow duality, at least not in this lifetime. No matter how we choose to perceive our reality, an opposite perception will always exist. In order to manifest change, this is a crucial understanding to grasp and accept. As long as we separate “reality” into categories of either “this” or “that,” the existence of both “this and that” will cause us to lose our balance. Then, we end up back on the treadmill of dualistic thinking.

Here’s how it happens: As we direct our focus to our chosen perception, the continued existence of the “that” we do not choose unnerves us. Our resistance to it causes our focus to waver, then eventually split in two, and bingo. We lose our balance and fall into confusion–which is actually the interference pattern we  created in our own energy field by resisting the existence of whatever it is that we do not choose!

Only when we accept the existence of “this and that” simultaneously…only when we accept  that our chosen perception of  “this” does not eliminate “that” as an equally possible choice…only through expanding our awareness beyond the enslavement of dualistic thinking will we find the powerful key to maintaining balance within duality. And once we do that, we are free. We are free to choose our perceptions, free to direct our focus to our perception of choice, and free to create new versions of “reality.”

As long as we maintain our balance, that is! Which means that we do not upset it by “thinking” that we  have to exert any energy into focusing on our perception of choice. That’s another pitfall I often hear about in my private practice. “Striving” and/or “trying” are not the energies of focus. They are remnants of the duality-based belief that attaching to one thing is reqiuired in order to avoid another. Just another form of resistance born of “either/or” thinking, in other words, which only serves to undermine one’s sense of freedom, and so the ability to balance within duality rather than be enslaved by it.

The truth is that NO exertion of energy is needed to focus!  Our ability to focus is like an exquisitely precise, powerful laser that requires no effort to use, whatsoever. You may be so used to feeling powerless that this seems hard to believe– and yet, you know this already, even if you don’t “think” you do! Let me refresh your memory. Remember the optical illusion of the lady and the witch? Well, how hard is it to switch focus between the two? NOT hard.  No thinking nor energy required. All it takes is a choice.

To summarize:
Balance is maintained by centering ourselves between opposites and accepting that both are always present as choices.
Maintaining  focus on our chosen perceptual experience  is how we manifest it as our reality.

Copy those, write them by hand in big bold letters, put them on your bathroom mirror, in your car, by your bed to read first thing in the morning. The more you focus on them, the more you entrain yourself into your new balance as a reality-creator. And don’t ever forget! Your innate, internal technology is more powerful and effective than any thinking process could ever even conceive of.  So don’t even think about it.  Just use it!


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  1. Reblogged this on the celestial team and commented:

    Well, here I am again with a reblog from my other website, right on the heels of “A Little (Big) Tip About Changing Your Reality” on 3/27! In fact, it feels like more like the second installment to an introductory course about energy alchemy….and yowza. I just got a hit from the celestial team as I wrote that. (Actually, “yowza” was MY word of choice. Theirs was “bingo.”) They want me to let you know that I will be offering a series of classes on the “nitty gritty” about using energy as an alchemical master. If you are interested in participating, let us know via email to
    Yowza–or bingo, whatever–that information came to ME in the same moment I passed it onto YOU. I feel it resonating all through me, however, so I know that it isn’t news to the more expanded version of my Self than the one who is typing this message. Even this one is feeling the resonance, though.
    I “get” why the celestial team wants me, their “earth member,” to offer these learning tools. It is the “human me” that learned them, and found out that they work. (If they didn’t, I would not be alive today.) I learned them first in my apprenticeship with shamans, who are also humans who “bridged the gap” between 3rd dimensional limitations and access to their full potential. They then passed the wisdom to me, a fellow Human Being with the desire to learn them. NOW, it is “MY right as well as MY responsibility” to pass them onto others in our family of Human Beings.
    Got it! So, yes, indeed, I AM offering to share the divinely intricate process of Co-Creation (which we are ALL capable of) in sequenced blocks of information! They will be designed to build a bridge into memory activation of the latent abilities as master alchemists that are encoded within each of us. All I will need to do so. of course, is the desire of those who wish to receive it..
    Ah. Now, there’s the funny part. Not just a .little “ha-ha funny,” either, but downright “paradoxically funny,” the kind that splits our sides laughing at ourselves whenever a really brilliant comedian nails it. See, I hear about people’s burning desires to step into their mastery as multidimensional beings all day long–yet most of them prefer to stay right where they are–burning with unquenched desire. God forbid they take the action to step into it!
    “Bingo,” says the celestial team. Aha. Well, the “gods” that sold us the bill of goods that we are “forbidden” to claim our innate potential are all gone NOW. I can personally attest to that. So let’s all have a good laugh at how long it took us to stop buying that bill of goods and get on with it shall we?
    Much Love/Light to you. –Judith (and the celestial team, of course!)

  2. erinlovesall

     /  April 3, 2013

    Reblogged this on erinlovesall and commented:
    Completely and totally awesome! Ka-chow! Love this.

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